In my
ebook,
I have a system I adopted and coach from called “The Paging Me System”.
It is based on my belief that we need to “‘awaken” to be able to heal.
I have had two wonderful bloggers highlight and summarize this system
before: Thank you
Alex Blackwell and
Dr. Nicole! Now I would like to present this to my readers in a poem form that came to me very quickly.
I would like to highlight that sometimes we must go through some muck of the past
in order to move forward with our lives. To some people this is a
stopping point. I believe it is VERY important to be able to “Appreciate EVERY Moment — Not Just the Good Ones“.
To look back at some of those “hardest” times in our life and pay
gratitude to them for the lessons learned. I often say I am grateful
for my years of dis-ease and extreme chronic pain. If I had not endured
years of illness I would surely not have the passion for healing that I
do today.
Some people get “stuck” on my first step “Pardoning” and say there is “no way” they can forgive someone for what they did.
Pardoning is not saying that you agree with whatever was done to you. It IS saying that
you are no longer letting it hold you back, you are accepting that it
happened and you are CHOOSING to move forward with your life.
Deepak Chopra’s quote (frequently posted by me) helped me the most
on this: “You must realize everyone is doing the best they can from
their own state of consciousness”. Also self-forgiveness is key! I have
written on “Self love” and “self forgiveness” and cannot stress how important these factors are for moving forward with your life.
As my regular readers know I do not frequently share my poetry on Heal Pain Naturally. It is something I am making myself become more comfortable with as I “Face My Fears” The response from “Weeding my Thoughts to Plant New Seeds”
made me so happy that I thought I’d give it another go! To write this I
sat down with the intention “I want to write a poem about my Paging Me
System” and 10 minutes later this was born. So excuse the roughness and
I hope you enjoy it!
The PAGING ME SYSTEM
The “Paging Me System” is what I coach from
a method of healing adopted by me.
I realized I have not yet clearly defined it on my blog
so let’s begin with the letter P.
P is for Pardoning, yourself and others
a step “difficult” for some two-fold.
You have to fall in love with yourself
AND let go of blame, often deep seeded and OLD.
Cutting the thick ropes
that have kept you anchored in the past
Allows for freedom, power and forward motion
the future is yours at last!
A is for Attention Shifting
from what is bad or hurts to what is right.
Wayne Dyer’s quote “When you change the way you look at things the things you look at change”
can help you to see things in a new light.
If you have a pain that is recurring
one you feel physically or emotionally within
after observing the cause, shift to what parts are painless
Concentrate on letting the positive emotion for that pain free part win.
G is for Gratitude for EVERYTHING
My favorite healing tool of all
because when you stop to FEEL all that is good
you can suddenly appear 10 feet tall!
From the air you breathe, people you love, having clothes and food
you can suddenly realize abundance is all around.
When you stop and really EXPERIENCE this at its deepest level
more goodness is sure to abound.
I is for Influences, keep them positive
from news, movies and books to the friends that you choose.
Remember true all-weather friendships win
Energy vampires suck your energy, too precious for you to lose.
N is for No Negative “Self talk”
Turn it around to say it a positive way.
Even a long wait in the grocery store shifted to positive time for reflection
can change your outlook on the day.
G is for Goal setting which is crucial
if you don’t know where you are going how will you know when you get there?
It is important to set mini goals to guide you
Think of it as climbing stair by stair.
M is for Meditation
which can simply be some quiet time.
A walk through nature, some deep breaths
to soothe the non stop ego-ic mind.
E is for Education
Your mind is YOURS for you to teach.
When you are learning things you are passionate about
the whole world is suddenly within reach.
This is the Paging Me System put simply
these steps are what helped to heal me.
It will be two years in January
I have been pain and pain pill free!
This is the system you can read about in “How I Used the Law of Attraction to Heal Myself from Chronic Pain”
(although not in poem form ;-)). I go into detail on how I was able to
use each stage to heal and I give resources for each point. Included
are worksheets on each area. Everyone who purchases the e-book is
entitled to a free 1/2 hour consultation. I recommend going through the
worksheets and writing down questions before the session to make the
most of the time. You can read some wonderful testimonials here
and I have had great results in coaching others. People find the
worksheets most helpful and when they are working through them usually
the one that causes the MOST resistance to fill in — is the area we
need to work the most on. I enjoy talking with readers and mentoring.
Healing myself physically is my proudest accomplishment and it is
wonderful to be sharing “what worked for me” with others.
It is therapeutic for me to get my poems out there as I work through
my own fears! Thanks for reading and as always I welcome comments (I
think) ;-).
My regular readers of my Heal Pain Naturally Blog know I have one goal for it: To represent
many different healing modalities, varied teachers and personal
development resources so ANYONE that visits can find something they
resonate with. When you resonate with something you truly FEEL a deep
connection and you know it is something you will gain value from by
pursuing. EVERYONE is different and even as you go through different
phases in your life techniques, modalities, teachers will change
depending on WHERE you are and WHAT you need. It is important to be
conscious of where you are in your life and the fact that there is more
to you than skin, bones and the automatic pilot you may have been on.
There are so many different healing modalities I have come across in my
studying and researching these last two years. NOTHING thus far has
resonated so deeply as The Reconnection. This past weekend I attended a
2 day (20 hour) seminar in NYC that changed the way I look at life and
today I want to share that with you. Hang onto your seats! 
My Spiritual Journey and The Reconnection
About nine months ago I realized my husband would be working 5 hours
away for a few months and decided it was the perfect time to pursue a
connection with spirituality. I figured the extra time at night and the
ability to wake up in the middle of the night to record thoughts and/or
dreams was better done when I wouldn’t be waking him up as well. Little
did I know WHAT I was about to embark on. Yes, Akemi yesterday on the
phone you said, “You asked for it and YOU GOT IT” and I could not put
it any better than that! I cannot possible sum up the last 9 months and
all that occurred to lead me where I am right now… maybe that will be
my NEXT ebook! In my post “Gratitude, Gratitude and More Gratitude”
I thank the people that most contributed to my spiritual growth in the
last nine months; Slade, Akemi, Andrea, Angela, Paula, Liara, Ray -
thank you again — you all are the reason I am where I am today and I am
forever grateful! If you want a more detailed version of how I got to
where I am spiritually you can read my interview done by Evita at Evolving Beings.
I want to preface the next part
by saying I realize this work might not resonate with some and might
even scare others but this is the work that resonates with ME and I
hope you can look at it from that perspective.
I wrote about Dr. Eric Pearl as one of my Heroes for the Heroes of Healing Group Writing Project. The healing modality he uses is called “The Reconnection” and it is like no other. Please read my post on him on “Heroes” to read detailed information or visit “The Reconnection website“.
Yes, it is an energy healing modality but it also involves light and
frequencies that we still do not fully understand. I DO know I went
into the seminar knowing it was powerful because after reading the book
and having “the healings” as well as a “Reconnection” done there was no
denying it. I DID NOT expect to come out of there and start a healing
practice which is what I am in the process of doing.
So what happened in those 2 days?
It began when I sat down in the room full of 78 classmates and about
7 teachers. I have never been a person to “Feel energy”. Sure, I’ve
been around someone and gotten a “good or bad energy vibe” but never
have I experienced a whole room that felt as if it was vibrating.
Another classmate described his experience as a constant buzzing,
others felt tingling and different sensations. While simple reading the
book “The Reconnection”
I had experiences that made me question how I looked at life and
healing. When I had the healing and Reconnection sessions I felt
sensations such as someone touching my face, rapid eye movement,
vibrations and movements inside my arms that I had never experienced,
sudden heat and cold and many emotions. The overwhelming sensation and
emotion I feel when undergoing reconnective healing is peace and love.
I did not know how they would go about “activating my hands”. Simply
by being in the room with so much energy and following directions by
holding my hands a foot apart in natural anatomical position I began to
FEEL energy between them. I know, sounds weird right? BELIEVE ME it
FELT like nothing I have ever experienced. My hands were tingling and
we PLAYED with energy — yep PLAYED, stretched and manipulated it so we
would get a feel for JUST what we were working with.
I found it very interesting that what took them about 20 hours to
teach us takes them about 2 hours to teach children. Why? Because of
all our preconceived thoughts and teachings a lot of time is spent on
research, results and answering questions. Kids accept it and enjoy
playing with the energy and are thrilled that they can use it to help
others. Dr. Pearl has been working with Reconnective Healing since
1993. His journey from a very successful chiropractor to discovering
“The Reconnection” was a surprise to say the least. After years of
research and the need to find out WHAT it was he finally decided to
take Dr. Chopra’s advice to him and “remain childlike” and not to
question it anymore. There are over 42,000 practitioners worldwide and
the healings have been miraculous. Cancer, AIDS, MS, deformities,
depression, drug dependencies — you name it and Reconnective Healing
has healed it. The rub for some — when you have a healing there is no
way to know WHAT will be healed.
As Dr. Pearl says: “If you are lucky your healing will come in the form you anticipate.
If you’re really lucky, your healing will come in a form you’ve not even dreamed of
- one which the Universe specifically has in mind for you”.
After the first day of the seminar I felt electrified and energized
even though it had been a very long day. We had arrived at 8:45AM and
got out at 6:30PM. Ray (my husband) and I had the weekend to ourselves
at my mother and step-dad’s place in the city and I was excited to try
my new toy/talent/skill on him. I knew Ray was skeptical but also was
aware he knows me better than anyone and that I am not a woo-woo kind
of person. I had him write about his experience because I did not want
to cloud the event with my observations:
I
laid on the bed in the middle of the room expecting a nice “humming”
feeling. In seconds, I couldn’t restrain laughter at the amazing
sensations I was experiencing. From my heart, through my esophagus, up
the left side of my face, there was a pulling sensation, almost like a
vacuum through my body out the top of my head. The left side of my
mouth felt as if strings were connected to my upper lip and someone was
tugging gently and deliberately. Knowing I wasn’t “supposed” to laugh,
Jen finally spoke and said “you’re not supposed to be laughing” and she
gently caressed both of my temples with her middle fingers in a
stroking motion to say “calm down”. Except, umm, she didn’t. It wasn’t
until two days later after her explaining that people in the seminar
reported sensations of being touched that I realized I needed to ask
her. “Why would I touch you? You don’t touch people with reconnective
healing”, she said. I laughed and said, “Yeah, but you did with me
though, just a little in the beginning, on the sides of my head when
you ran your fingers, like this?” No, indeed, she did not touch me.
Yikes.
As
she moved around the bed. I could almost tell where she stood because
different parts of me felt “activated”. I felt as though something was
passing through my body and out of it in her direction. It had begun
with my head and moved to my chest, my feet, and then my heart. My
emotions began to feel incredibly intense. At one point, I felt
“something” passing through my heart and my emotions became intent on
saying “I am SO PROUD of you. I am SO HAPPY FOR YOU”. Love and warmth
was passing through me as never before. As quickly as it came, the
intensity left but a lingering sensation of having been detoxified
remained. When I finally sat up, I felt as if my body and soul
had been detoxified. My frequency had changed to a faster rate and
tremendous calmness radiated through my body.I’ve always believed in
the power of the mind and the possibility of forces like this but I had
never experienced it until Jen worked on me that day.
No, I did not touch Ray. People experience many different sensations
while undergoing Reconnective healing and no, you do not even touch the
person you are working on. In fact as an experiment we did during the
seminar proved — the further away in general the stronger the
sensations. During the weekend people saw, felt, smelled, heard and
tasted things during their sessions. It is a powerful undeniable
feeling and you don’t even have to believe in it for it to work.
Incidentally I did learn that laughter is another very common reaction
— sorry Ray for saying “don’t laugh”.
What do I feel when facilitating a “healing”?
I feel conscious. I feel awakened. I feel like I am connecting with
the “client” and that love and goodness is all around and inside me. I
feel tingling. I feel a sensation of strings connecting me to the
person. I feel aware of how connected I am to the Universe. I feel as
Dr. Pearl says that “healing” is almost a limited word as to WHAT is
happening.
Accessing this energy has allowed me to get to a deep level of
meditation within a minute — much deeper than I was ever able to access
before. I was trained in self healing and distance healing as well this
weekend and feel an overwhelming sense of calmness and connectivity
when I utilize these. I feel focused, alive and KNOW I am oh so much
more than my body!
Research, moving forward, what does it all mean for Heal Pain Naturally?
There has been a lot of research done on The Reconnection by Dr. Gary Schwarz at The University of Arizona, Dr. William Tiller from the Engineering Department at Stanford University and by Dr. Korotkov
of St. Petersburg University in Russia. Much of it will be released
soon on The Reconnection website. Right now you can go and look at an Kirlian photograph of Dr. Pearl’s hands that clearly shows SOMETHING is going on that has never been seen before. You can also check the press page
for new articles. The newer research is nothing short of amazing and
will be opening doors for even more people becoming involved when
released. “The Reconnection” work has already been backed by Dr. Deepak
Chopra, Dr. Christina Northrop, Dr. Wayne Dyer, the above professors
and Drs. and many more prominent people. Who was at the seminar? Was it
all ex-hippies and woo woo people? Nope, not at ALL. I met mostly
doctors, nurses, psychologists, chiropractors and massage therapists
and assorted other professionals.
So by now you are either really interested or think “poor Jenny - she must have bonked her head”.
Believe me — I did not expect to experience miracles this past weekend
and I did. I did not expect to be moved to tears by the experiences
talked about but I was. I certainly did not want ANOTHER thing put on
my plate of “to dos”. I came out of there KNOWING I have to do this
work. I feel it will help my writing and my life as a whole. I am
excited beyond belief to facilitate healing in others but I KNOW it is
something WAY beyond me doing the healings. I am receiving and allowing
the person to receive. Adverse effects? There have been no reports of
them even with 42,000 people practicing. Yes, it is something we are
still learning about but isn’t medical research and the body as a whole
something we are continually learning about? We only know what 8% of
DNA is accountable for and 10% of what the brain does — those numbers
leave a lot of room for more information to be discovered!
Why is this different from other energy healing modalities? Can
anyone learn this? What is the difference between “Reconnective
Healing” and “The Reconnection”? What can I expect during a healing
session? You can go to the Reconnection website’s FAQ for those and more answers. How do you find a licensed practitioner? Click here for the directory and make sure you use one that is legitimate.
So, does this mean this is The Reconnection blog now? Nope, not at
all. I will have a separate page on The Reconnection to promote
learning about it, post testimonials as they come in and to promote my
practice. I still believe everyone needs to pursue what resonates
within and follow their own path. I will offer distance healing through
my Reconnection page as well. My journey led me here and boy am I
excited for what’s next! Life is all about learning, experiencing and
LIVING and BEING. I am so very grateful for my dis-eases because they
led me to where I am right now. In a place of gratitude, love, openness
and amazement for this grand Universe!
If you are interested in learning more I highly recommend Dr. Pearl’s book “The Reconnection“, reading my post about him on “Heroes of Healing” and the Reconnection website
as a starting point. I would love to hear from others that have
experienced this as well as other methods of natural healing changing
their lives. If you have any question about Reconnective Healing feel
free to check the site or ask me. There are seminars taking place all
over the world that are available to everyone and YES everyone can
receive this gift! Until the research is released publicly I am not at
liberty to discuss it but when it is released WOW will even more people
be amazed! I would also love to invite Reconnective Healers to share
their stories here of healings and of the experience of being a
practitioner.