It’s April and love is in the air! Wonder why we fall in love in the
Spring? Our bodies are responsive to the smells of fertile soil calling
for seed; our skin vibrates with life and warmth under the returning
sun, and the cacophony of mating throughout the animal and plant
kingdoms awakens us in the early morning and lullabies us to sleep at
night. That’s why. Keeping that cerebral cortex in the driver’s seat of
our relationship Chariot takes an enormous feat of self-will which in
the Tarot cards is represented by the Strength card. Enjoy the moment
but don’t forget to apply that amazing instrument of logic which the
divine has gifted you with. Enlightenment unfolds when utilizing all
your spiritual gifts.
Seeking Several Psychic Advisors
Many clients who seek my advice say that I must love my work. I do.
But just for the record that doesn’t mean it’s easy. It’s texturally
complex. People consult me because they believe I am able to see the
future and are able to reveal elements to which they are oblivious, such
as what others in their situation are feeling, thinking and planning.
Clients put a fair degree of faith in what I am forecasting until I say
something that isn’t appealing. Typically some of it is – but some of it
isn’t. There are going to be frustrations, changes, losses, and
regrets. Some take those sad bits of insight better than others.
I have clients coming to me after consulting several other “psychic
advisors” on the same issue, demanding to know why I am forecasting
something completely different from what others have told them. One
woman recently boldly announced she had just got off the phone with
another psychic who told her that her marriage would get back on track
as long as she meditated on healing it. She called me for a second,
affirming opinion. I told her that not even lifetimes of meditation were
going to fix her marriage. In the course of our conversation it came
out that indeed her husband had been having an affair (actually it had
turned out to be far greater than singular) and told her he had never
loved her. He said in fact he found her rather repulsive. She had chosen
not to believe that. Tragically I have little doubt that she continued
to call another bevy of advisors seeking what she wanted to hear.
I can relate hundreds of such stories. Like a mantra I tell women and
men that relationships are actually quite simple. When someone is crazy
about you, you actually do know that. They tend to behave rather
predictably. When someone is crazy about you – you are among the top
three issues on their priority list. Your happiness, comfort, and good
health is clearly paramount to their peace of mind. They often have to
restrain themselves from calling you ten times a day. Like you. When
someone is using you for their own purposes, you know that too. Every
aspect of your relationship is dependent on your bowing to their will.
The minute you ask for a little more sugar they are heading for the exit
with barely a backward glance. That isn’t love, it isn’t even lust.
Most of the time. Sometimes we find ourselves in love with someone
who is mentally ill which is going to take soul healing to get
everything sorted – such as who loves who.
I do know mental disorders because I’ve been extensively trained in
this field. I’ve even taught others how to be therapists to those with
mental disorders. Mental illness can certainly throw a wrench in the
best laid relationship plans! You must be careful not to be drawn into
the construct of the dis-ease yourself: Playing a game by which the
rules are set by the mental disorder. This is a relationship doomed to
failure. For example, playing Wendy to your man Peter Pan (the boy who
would never grow up) is on a crash course because we as living, growing
beings have a natural imperative to grow too. At some point your
relationship will push at the boundaries of the Land of Forever Children
and nudge it to the edge of grow or die.
Male Psychic Clients Have Similar Relationships Problems
Like Sleeping Beauty, Peter Pan gets an emotional shock (such as a
parent dying) and wakes up to the dream he’s playing at living and runs
off and marries someone else who represents the real world to him. Like a
perfect puzzle fit, the soon-to-be-bride nestles within the strict
conformist parameters set by his family of origin, religion and class.
She represents the real world to him. The growing up part. You were the
playing, Wendy part to which he had to awaken eventually. Oh he might
suggest that you hang around in the sidelines for when he wants to play
at being Peter Pan occasionally. How many have been gobsmacked when
apparently suddenly their lover just ups and marries another! Countless
women and men. When I suggest to a client that this is going to happen
my job becomes textually complex. I don’t mean to suggest this doesn’t
happen to men too. Many male clients phone me with tragic stories. They
are desperately in love with a woman who thinks he makes an
understanding friend, a great shoulder to cry on, and an occasional sex
partner when the pickings are slim but seriously? No way. He’s just not
the one. He doesn’t even have a car for goodness sake.
Your Soul Knows True Love!
I especially caution people at this time of year about the online
dating phenomenon. Not that it doesn’t have its extraordinary success
stories but they would seem to be on par with winning a jackpot. How
many have to play before someone wins? If you are gearing up for an
online meet and someone presses you for photos of yourself please
consider what this is really all about. I’d be strongly tempted to send
him my worst pics because at some point in our budding love he’ll
certainly have to confront that vision. Most likely I would opt to send
him none having a particularly strong predilection for risk-takers
I wish you all the joys and excitements of spring…just remember to
keep it all in perspective. Your soul does know true love. It’s open
regular habits of communication, willing self-sacrifice, endurance,
honour, virtue, loyalty, devotion and pining. It’s all rather
Visit My Web Sites!
Tarot by Kathleen
Tarot by Kathleen in Canada
Best Psychic in Canada
Free Online Dream Dictionary
Instructional Videos on Psychology